Hello, how are doing today?.
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That is just a simply question, yet, it could shows how significant you are to those who ask you that.
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I feel happy every time i get to see people asking this simple question to me, it shows that, my friends actually still remember my existence. I am someone to them in their life.
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Smile, is another thing that will affect ones mood. It is good to see people smile, their smile makes me smile too, unconsciously. Now i remember how my relatives used to said they always see me smiling, i smile because I'm happy to see them, and i get the happy smile from them back. =)
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Same philosophy, smile will get infected. Smile influence a person mood. Smile does not cost you any money, or your life. A smile to people around you, makes their day different. A help to a total stranger, makes your day better too!
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Few days ago, i was back from college and got in a bus. Followed by a lady behind, who she does not have small change for the bus fare. I saw the same situation quite a few times already, every time, i wish i have the confidence and brave in me, so that i could go forward and help them out. This time, my confidence came out from nowhere, i started to seek for small change for the poor lady and guess what, I don't have RM5 change also, therefore, another idea strike in my mind. I offered to pay for her, regardless of anything in return. Well, it really makes my day. I was damn happy that i can help out a lady who was nearly got kick out from the bus and save her embarrassment. We smile at each other, had some small talks.
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It feel good that people recognize our efforts, our existence. This is why human living on earth i supposed? According to Maslow hierarchy, there are 5 needs in human, let me explain them to you step by step.
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1st will be the PHYSIOLOGICAL NEEDS. In other word, basic needs. Human need breathing, food, water, sleep, homeostasis , excretion and sex. Believe it or not? Sex is categorize as basic needs.hehe =p
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2nd will be SAFETY NEEDS, it could be fulfill only if they have their physiological needs. What is safety needs then? It's the feeling of security. Security of your body, your family, a house to live in, your health, property and etc. Basically, it means that things that could be control in your hands..
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3rd is LOVE/BELONGING NEEDS. Human get their food and sex and home to live, now they will look for some companionship. Friendship, bf/gf relationship, family bonding.. and etc... Talk about belonging, i feel pathetic for people who is always a loner. They've got no one to talk with, no one to share their probelms with. So please be apprecaite for your friend's existence in your life.
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4th will be ESTEEM NEEDS. Once one had already achieved the previous 3 needs, eventually they will seek for more, that's is the greedy part of human--sometimes is good also, to have ourself improve in some way. Self-esteem, confidence which plays an important role in our life, also can be the tool to destroy someone life. People who they have self-esteem and confidence in them, could socialise and perform much more better in every acpects in their life rather than those who is low in self-esteem and lack of confidence. Respect others, and you will get the some respect back.
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The last is SELF-ACTUALIZATION NEEDS. Well, matter of fact, this is the hardest for a human being to achieve. It includes morality, creativity, problem solving, lack of prejudic, acceptance of the facts..etc etc.. To achieve this, we have to know well about ourself and can control our emotions, EQ.
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Opps.. too much of lecture until i sesat on my topic. Ok lets come back. So in short, we have to help ourself in order to help others. Do the same to other as you wish them do the same to you too. So smile to them who you wish to see their smile. Care about others if you want to get the same treatment back, of coz it will not be 100% they will tret you back the same, but at least, your heart will feel better if you do so.
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*Sorry for another silly blog but this is all what is in my mind*

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Xoxo